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Under what circumstances have you felt disadvantaged due to your disability?
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My expectations are often shattered
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Name: The Rev. Nancy Lane, Ph.D.
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I am a person with a disability (cerebral palsy), an ordained Episcopal priest and a psychologist, with a dual Ph.D. in Religion and Psychology. I went to college and grad school because of my aspirations and expectations of needing and wanting a career. (My calling and vocation were also very much a part of this process.)

It is clear to me that I have many abilities for my career, and that has been confirmed through my accomplishments and the excellent letters of recommendation which I have acquired over the years. I write, teach, preach, lead workshops and retreats etc. as often as possible. I do not have a full time job because of blatant discrimination by my bishop. My efforts to find full time work in academia have not been fruitful. I was told by someone at a famous Ivy league school where I live that I could not expect to compete for jobs with other Ph.D's.

My disability has never defined my goals or career. I was realistic about what I could and could not do -- and knew that the minimal adaptations I needed did not need to be barriers to achieving my goals. I also expected to be a fully contributing member of society and church.

That has not happened because non-disabled people rarely take seriously that I am bright, a scholar, competent, and ABLE to have a career. They do not consider that I have the same needs to be employed and productive for fulfillment, income, saving, investing, travel etc. At one time I was a single, head-of-household mother, trying to support two children on an income that was a fraction of what other clergy were being paid -- although I had more experience!!

My point is that employers usually define what they think I can or cannot do. They fail to understand that I know best what I can or cannot do and know how to adapt in ways they have never had to consider. CP is an integrated part of who I am -- it does not define me as a human being who is very capable. My expectations have always been to get on with living and do the things I do well and enjoy. However, those expectations are frequently shattered -- not by CP or my limitations -- but by the very limited and prejudicial attitudes of others.

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